Things Not to Do on a Date Can Lead to Another Date

About two weeks ago, I decided to start casually dating again. I lost a drunk bet with a guy that has been dying to take me out on a date. A friend’s brother’s friend. For his privacy, let’s call him X.

When we met up, it was so awkward cause I wasn’t feeling it and he was clearly overly prepared for this event or undertaking. He didn’t know what to do cause he obviously knew I was just like whatever let’s pay the piper. I was such a jerk to him and he seemed to like that. The more of a jerk I was to him, the more he seemed to like me.

Do NOT text during a date: It is obvious that you shoud not text on a date, but I did. My friend that I was texting was mad at me cause I kept texting her and told me to stop. Did I? Nah. I actually texted her more. He did not think much of it and thought my reactions to the texts were cute. OY!

Do NOT hit your date: Obviously violence is a no no whether it is a date or not.  However, especially on a date, you should not hit your date. I kinda sorta did. We were mini golfing and I hit him in the head with the golf ball that he had to put ice on his head while we were eating at some diner. Most guys would take this as a sign of her not liking him or him not liking her, but nope. He liked how I had good aim.

Do NOT reject him in a bad manner: What do guys try to do on a first date? They try to kiss you. If you want to, go ahead, but me, I do not do that. At least a week later or so, but not on a freakin first date. That is why he got a hit in the head from the golf ball. There are no such things as accidents honey. I kinda turned my head and walked away to get my golf ball. He turned red out of embarrassment and didn’t know what to say. This you think would get him away since I didn’t even have the decency to say sorry or I’m not like that, but no! Later he told me it was a turn on how I acted all nonchalantly. Honey! It ain’t acting. It’s called I really didn’t care for it.

After all the do NOTs have been done, I went home and just kept texting my friend. She said I was a biatch and blah blah blah. I texted my guy friend and he said that I was rude and blah blah blah. My date texted me good night and said it was a pleasure and hoped I enjoyed our night. Serious?! Okay. Fine. He might just be being nice. Maybe he won’t call me back tomorrow. Wrong! He took me out on another date and kept texting till this very day. Oy! What does a girl have to do to tell a man she is not interested after she told him and showed him so many times? Any ideas on how to turn off a guy?